Lars and the Real Girl

5 out of 5 stars

Lars and the Real Girl

 

Directed by: Craig Gillespie

Starring: Ryan Gosling

Genre: Drama/Comedy/ Romance

Run Time: 106 min.

Release Date: October 2007

On The Web: Official Site

Teaser: Movie Trailer

Reviewed by Byron Merritt

Similar to the theme that runs through PAY IT FORWARD, this film also has a morally upstanding message for those who help others and then receive something they never thought possible: internal healing.

Although very unrealistic in today’s terms, LARS AND THE REAL GIRL is a great fictional take on what it would be like when an entire town gets behind one man’s delusion and helps him (and themselves) get through past, present and future problems.

The man is Lars Lindstrom (Ryan Gosling, HALF NELSON) whose isolationism has reached psychologically damaging proportions. Living in the garage while his brother and expectant sister-in-law occupy the cozy house, Lars’ ruined psyche is at first a mystery to all. Karin (Emily Mortimer, DEAR FRANKIE) is Lars’ very pregnant sister-in-law who tries everything to get Lars to come over for dinner or interact in some way with the family and neighbors; she even goes so far as to tackle him in their driveway! Gus (Paul Schneider, THE FAMILY STONE) shoves Lars’ problems under the family rug, saying “There’s no problem with Lars.” Lars’ computer coworkers see him simply as an introvert, except for one cute new employee named Margo (Kelli Garner) who is attracted to him but can’t seem to break through the walls he’s built around him.

All of Lars’ problems come to a head when Lars orders a silicon sex doll through the internet and introduces her to everyone as his new girlfriend. And it isn’t a joke; it’s a delusion that helps Lars build a surprising ladder to vault over the psychological walls he’s built. The first to meet “Bianca” (the doll’s given name by Lars) is Lars’ brother Gus and sister-in-law Karin. Dumbfounded, they take Lars and Bianca to their local doctor Dagmar (Patricia Clarkson, GOOD NIGHT, AND GOOD LUCK) who discovers Lars’ delusion but is unsure of the cause.

The damage issued upon Lars slowly comes seeping out. Damaged by his now dead father. Abandonment/death of his mother. No help coming from any corner of his life or neighbors. It all took its toll on Lars and now it has manifested itself via a sex toy. But can the damage be reversed?

Watching this story one has to remember that it is fiction. Most mentally ill people are ostracized by their communities and getting the right help is often tough. But in Lars And The Real Girl, the entire township rallies around Lars to help him (and Bianca) become a part of the community again. The strange thing that happens is that in doing so, the townspeople heal whatever rifts exist within themselves, too.

Although funny at times, the story is more a poignant look at what could happen if people reached out and assisted those with psychological problems. The healing could be immense. And romance, a true romance, could blossom from the cure.

 

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Lars' brother Gus (Paul Schneider) has difficulty accepting his brother's mental illness

 

 

 

 

DVD cost: $22.99

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Newsworthy: The real doll had 9 different faces which were used to show a sort of evolution of the character. The doll starts with a face with heavy make-up, but then later uses a more natural looking face without make-up. Finally, the doll's face becomes slightly green to reflect her failing health.

Movie Quote: "Bianca's in town for a reason. This isn't necessarily a bad thing."

 

Other Actors/Actresses from Lars and the Real Girl

Arnold PinnockAnnabelle TorseinTommy Chang

 

 

Images from Lars and the Real Girl

Lars (Ryan Gosling) eats dinner with his brother and sister-in-law shortly after introducing them to his blow-up doll Bianca

Doctor Dagmar (Patricia Clarkson) discovers that Lars has a delusion

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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